If anyone would like to draw a really nice picture of Jim Varney, and send it in, we will put that picture in this spot on this page. You can send your pictures to, Billy Dee, P.O. Box 91, Merrimac, Wis. 53561. And thanks and God Bless!
A personal letter from Jims best friend.
Below, are parts from several letters from a close friend that knew and loved Jim. These parts show a personal glimpse of Jim Varney in his public and private life. I give God the Glory for finding Jim and taking him home to heaven.
Billy Dee
Good Morning Billy, my new friend.
This will be from a very personal point of view about the man
I
knew and was close to for 30 years. Another close friend of his and I
are
going to collaborate on it...
Jim was unique in that he could instantly "read" what made other people
tick
and go right there with them. Because I knew him personally, I now see
a
lot of irony in some of the comments coming to light from people he was
around that he wasn't all that close to. But I will keep that insight
close
to my vest for another story. Suffice it to say that he was always,
always
a gentleman, even as a young man of 21. You could always count on
him...you
could take him home to meet your family (and I did :)) without fearing
he
would embarrass you or that they wouldn't accept him. He was a host
unparalleled...anything he had he would offer you to make you
comfortable.
That was "Jim" even when he was the true epitome (and believe me he was)
of
the starving actor. He was very much a giver. He was very much a lover
of
knowledge, a photographic memory, and a mind like a whip when it came to
understanding. "With all thy getting, get some wisdom" was a creed he
lived
by and shared with others. Ernest was true acting. If you want to get
a
glimpse of the true Jim Varney, go watch Beverly Hillbillies a few
times.
That movie just took my breath away every time I watched it; it was a
showcase for him as he truly was. I heard recently that he would never
let
himself be photographed with a cigarette because he was afraid the
"kids"
would see it, and think it was o.k. to smoke. He touched hundreds of
children through the "Make a Wish" foundation, and almost NO ONE ever
knew.
He did not do that for acclaim, he did it to bring some joy to the
children
he touched...and in the last few years of his life, one of his longings
was
to have a child of his own. He asked me so many times to bring my son
to
visit...but I live in Texas, and Jim fell ill when my child was 18
months
old...by the time I knew, Jim was too ill to enjoy my boy.
I appreciate you writing to me very much, I would love to hear from you. I support your work
totally.
I had begged Jim to work with me on a website for him, and he felt it
would
be blasphemous to do that himself...however, my perspective was that his
life truly mattered. I know the deep, deep stories behind his life, and
the
things he experienced, some of the mistakes he made, the love he always
projected so well and not so well, deserve recognition...because they
may
help someone who is barely holding on, suffering with some of the things
he
did. Jim was so compassionate, you will never know. That's why he
always
stopped and talked with his fans - he didn't stop for just anyone; he
wouldn't stop for someone trying to use/abuse their power, but he would
stop
for someone who needed him on some level and he always knew who those
folks
were. You were obviously one of them.
He loved the Lord, Jesus Christ.
I
think he felt very unworthy, but I know he tried to live up to the Lord
in
his heart...we talked about it many times. So, in whatever undertaking
you
decide, if you will give the Glory to God, I feel He will support your
endeavors. Please pray that God will give me the ability to write a
beautiful story about our "Hill William Jim" with a little help from his
friends and, bless his heart, Jim himself, because he left me some very
precious words of his own to use.
Best wishes to you and your family, and as Jim said to me when I visited
him
in October, 1999, "this is just a bus stop on the way to somewhere
infinitely better."
Love,
Myra
Parts from other letters from Myra about Jim
Yes, Jim smoked heavily. Cigarettes, cigars and pipes. He had quite a
collection of pipes, and he loved knives and guns. He was quite an
outdoorsman, even when we were in our youth. He used to take me out in
the
fields beyond the Pioneer Playhouse and do his target practice with a
450
magnum. Scared me to death. However, he was a master with guns, knives
and
bows & arrows and loved them. He could tell you the entire history of
knives and war and all that stuff. He was a real history buff.
Myra
Further Parts From Other Letters.
Jim suffered from manic-depression (or bi-polar disease which I guess is
the
politically correct term for it) all his life. As much as he made
others
laugh, he had a lot of heartaches,
He was saved in the late
70's.
I remember it, because he told me about it in 1986 and it had been
several
years before that. He said he realized one day that he was never going
to
get anywhere in life if he didn't accept Christ as his savior and did a
180
degree turn. He drank a lot and partied a lot (to be expected
considering
his profession) before then, but he told me he gave up alcohol
altogether
about the same time or shortly after he got saved. Like me, I suppose,
he
figured the one vice he had left (smoking) he ought to be allowed to
have
since he gave up so many others. It turned out to be the one that
killed
him. Although, actually, it's my understanding that they got the cancer
in
his lung, and then it spread to his brain but I thought they had gotten
that
too. It was his back that took him down. When I was there, he was
already
suffering pain in his back - he thought it was the radiation flaring up
an
old injury he got from falling while he was trying to ski during the
Snow board Academy movie. He also had some emotional let downs after I
was
there, that I won't go into at this time, but I think Varney died as
much
from giving up as anything. I think he was very tired of it all, if you
get
my drift, not to mention that his body had suffered so. But of course,
none
of us really know but God. The last time I talked to him was in
mid-January, and he could barely talk then, and was sort of incoherent
from
pain medication.
Myra
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